I was 15 years old, bored and messing around with my curious friend Erik in the Roseburg High School library at lunch.

“Hey, this is cool,” Erik held up a book called simply, “Hypnosis”.

This was pre-internet in a small town.

If I was going to learn about anything “unusual”, it would have to be at the library (we didn’t have TV at home!).

I took it from him and thumbed through. There was a short script about how to guide someone into hypnosis.

“You want to try it?” I asked.

“Sure.”

So, I read the words on the page, telling him to relax. Then, I told him he couldn’t open his eyes.

“Try to open your eyes.”

Nothing happened. Did he not hear me?

Was he ignoring me?

Oh well, I just continued until the end…

“And when I snap my fingers, you will awaken to normal consciousness.”

SNAP

“Whoa, that was trippy!” he said.

“Yeah? What happened when I told you to open your eyes?”

“I tried, but I just couldn’t.”

He couldn’t!

No way!

It had actually worked!

I just stared at him, not sure what to say. You mean, you can just tell someone something isn’t possible, and suddenly it isn’t, for them?

I felt like I’d just discovered the Holy Grail. I just told someone that something they could easily do normally was no longer possible.

And it became true.

In other words, I molded reality, just using words.

Why hadn’t anyone told me about this??

It opened up so many questions:

How and why was reality so malleable?

How powerful are our minds?

Are we just running on programs, like a computer?

What else was possible?

• Could you have surgery without anesthetic? (yes)
• Stop bleeding, through the power of your mind? (yes)
• Control things like blood pressure and heart rate? (yes)
• Change pesky behaviors like smoking and weight loss? (yes)

…what were the actual limits??

I couldn’t stop thinking about this. But, I was also very religious. And we hadn’t prayed. We hadn’t asked God to do this. We just did it ourselves. What did that mean about my faith?

I decided to ask my church leader what he thought about it and his response was, “Anything that takes away your freedom of choice comes from the devil!”

And so, I vowed never to try to hypnotize or be hypnotized again.

But I was soooo curious!

I kept that vow…in public. In secret, I started to use this new tool called “the internet” to find out all I could. Because sex was just as taboo as these researches of consciousness, I was equally fascinated by both…

Imagine my excitement when I discovered hypno-porn! And erotic hypnosis. Unlike a lot of guys, I found the voice could be just as arousing as the body, and I was never interested in watching people have sex.

But I was fascinated by how I could [be] influence[d] by words to feel things, experience things. And, in some ways, this was a loophole. Because, hey, I wasn’t touching anyone! Not violating the ‘Law of Chastity’…just talking sexy, making suggestions…well, listening to them at first.

So that was ok…right? Experiencing “aural” sex while, at the same time, keeping myself pure for marriage. A win-win!

I married at 22, and our sex life wasn’t the best, so my researches just kept going deeper and deeper (no pun intended)—at night, alone, when my wife wasn’t watching.

I eventually found something called a “hands-free orgasm” (HFO for short) file.

I decided to try it…so I listened to the short file, along with watching the pendulum and the suggestive lady giving the suggestions… and, sure enough, it worked! I had a full-blown hands-free orgasm with no touching involved.

Not only could you quit smoking and reduce your anxiety, but you could have full-blown orgasms without any touch whatsoever, using the magic of hypnosis!

I was gobsmacked.

I collected files and listened for years, exploring all sorts of things that were suggested in these files, as much as I dared, because my sexual shame and fear would overtake me and I would ‘put it on the shelf’ for extended periods throughout my 20s.

Until I left the Church.

Even after that, I still felt hesitant to dive into erotic hypnosis in a bigger way. I couldn’t tell anyone about it. I was my dirty little secret.

Until I moved to San Francisco in 2012.

I didn’t know anyone.

No one knew me.

So, I did something that I had never done before.

I booked my first session with a real live erotic hypnotist!

I was so nervous! A part of me still wondered if the God that I had been trained to believe in (hmmm, was that also hypnosis??) was staring down disapprovingly from the clouds.

But, she was very capable. Did her work well. And we got to a nice, relaxing, pleasurable place.

I didn’t do anything overtly sexual in that first experience…I was much too shy to ask for that…but I felt good. Relaxed. At peace.

But the next day was magic. I was on fire! I had never felt so good!

I sat down the next morning and wrote a social media post that had more attention, likes, comments than anything I had ever written.

On fire…

Was this what hypnosis could do?

I was hooked, though I was still feeling shame about my desires toward this occulted and forbidden art form…mixed with sexual energy.

Until I discovered MeetUp.

It turns out, that there were entire meetups in San Francisco dedicated to erotic hypnosis.

I wasn’t the only degenerate pervert interested in this!

I hadn’t imagined that I could attend a meetup at a cafe or in a community center and practice and talk about erotic hypnosis with like-minded people!

There were some who had been doing this far longer than I had…who were more than comfortable doing this in a semi-public venue…demonstrations of orgasm on command or hypnotic bondage.

I had found my people!

I wasn’t the only perverted freak who was into this stuff (and, to be honest, in the world of kink, there’s waaaaay crazier stuff going on…)!

It helped me let go of some of the shame and guilt I had felt to meet others “like me”. It’s amazing how, 9 years after leaving the conservative Church, these feelings still followed me…

I began to dive into hypnosis much more deeply. I looked online to find people to exchange and play with. But I couldn’t really find anyone.

Frustrated at the lack of “play partners” I could find, I decided to start a YouTube channel and start posting some hypnosis journeys, in the hopes of attracting a lady who would want to explore mutually and get some more practice.

I hadn’t really had a lot of training, but I had been listening at this point for around 15 years, on and off, so I had absorbed something.

My first few recordings weren’t popular. Just a couple hundred views. I was talking to another hypno-friend, lamenting the fact, and asking her why she thought that was.

“Because you aren’t getting them off!” she said, quite matter-of-factly as with the voice of an oracle.

Because I’m not getting them off… The words echoed in my mind.

Well, maybe I should make a file to get people off, then!

And thus “Orgasm on Command” was born…

Orgasm on Command became my 7th file that I put on YouTube.

And oh boy, did it take off!

Instead of getting a couple hundred views total, it started getting a few hundred listens per day.

Soon, it was averaging over 1000 listens per day.

And the comments…

“Just had my best orgasm EVER, thanks to you!”

“I’ve NEVER had an orgasm before…and this FINALLY did it!”

“My boyfriend can’t make me cum, but you can, without even touching me!”

The comments went on and on. And not just from women…but also from men. And why not? I hadn’t even considered that, but around 25% of my listeners were male.

So, I was having the surreal experience of making strangers orgasm to my voice all over the world. Effortlessly.

That video has now been watched almost half a million times. Around 20% of those who land on it watch the whole 20 minutes. And, if I assume that around 20% of them have some kind of ecstatic experience, that means that, in the past decade, I have given around 100,000 people an orgasm!

I checked YouTube. There isn’t any similar hypnotic track that has those numbers. Which means…

…that I have quite possibly given more orgasms to more people than anyone else in history– just using my voice!

Thanks to the miracle of the Internet, I had eclipsed Casanova, Don Juan, and even Wilt Chamberlain ;).

How much pleasure is available to us and how can we get it?

Some of the listeners started asking, “Would you do a hypnosis session with me?” or “Could you make a custom recording for me?”

And so I started offering custom recordings, working with people 1:1, and since then have hypnotized thousands of people online and in person for more pleasure, to experience their fantasies, and to dive deeper into their own sexuality.

Soon, I will be launching a hypnotic program to allow you to experience this for yourself, at home, in even more depth and power.

So, if you want more pleasure, subscribe at this link: https://hypnoorgasm.com/subscribe-to-the-pleasure-game/

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